Sunday, December 13, 2020

Life goes on...as 2020 comes to an end.

 December 11, 2020

Central NY

The COVID #s have increased and my city (Liverpool) has gone to "yellow" , which means limited numbers at certain places, gyms and hair salons remain open, and masks are required everywhere. under 10 was required for Thanksgiving. Which was fine for us. Our Thanksgiving included my current household, my son's friend Conner, who is always here anyways and Mark's mom.  

This was my first turkey done at home in over 25 years. We have always gone to the casino, or had dinner at my parents home, and even when we have had it in our home it was a pre-cooked all you have to do is warm it; "Thanksgiving in a Box" deals. I think it came out okay. Diane made some yummy green bean casserole, but forgot the rolls.  Oh well, at least we were safe by Governor Cuomo's standards. 

The new positive cases has had me a little concerned, and I am limited my time away from the home. Mark's employment now has mandatory testing. He is currently tested 3x a week and has to wear a face shield over his state regulatory mask. My son continues to do online learning, my daughters friend was positive which prompted her to get a test. (We are all negative here.) 

I have continued to address any appointments and the weekly needed grocery run. I even walked the mall one afternoon with friends. Masks worn of course. 

My photography class continues to be in person, but I had my Clinical supervision course on zoom. It was three days of awful. Its so much easier to get sidetracked when you dont have the teacher looking over you. I spent most of those three days scrap booking my trip to Australia and coloring an inapprorate coloring book my friend had given me. (Pictured here please look away if you are anti-cuss)



Hey, they were fun. At any rate, I successfully was engaged in the course work and was just about to the end when I lost power. Literally the course was just about to be completed and I was kicked off the internet. Luckily I got back in as well as sent an email, just in time to say goodbye. Well its done, now I can re-submit for my certification that was previously deficient. I spoke with a classmate who made me think about returning to school to get that last bit of course work for my license. I am so on the fence about it. Do I? Don't I. Right now, with COVID I am thinking it might be best just to stay my current course. I am sure these thoughts will come up again. 

In between taking classes I have been taking some time to work on my trailer. I did the backsplash



And painted the metal shelves.Im hoping to paint the cabinets next, and actually look under the rug to see if there is any wood rot in the floor boards. I pray NOT, but my son, after some investigating thinks that there is water damage under the table. I was giving myself a goal of 1/2 hour a day to work on her, but this past week was BUSY with classes, and the week prior was SOOOO cold and snowy. I know, EXCUSES EXCUSES.

I spent time getting festive and got my two tree's up for the Holidays. I also spent several hours on Amazon ordering gifts. I am so grateful for this method of Christmas shopping. The kids send a list from Amazon and I simply put them in the cart. Done. This has also been a saver on wrapping. Historically, I am attempting to wrap everything just before the day, now, I am wrapping as the item comes in. DONE!

I just love my Disney themed tree.





Today, Mark and I went to Del Lago casino to retrieve some free play. Mark had $150 free play which he returned with $143 in cash. I was awarded 45 of that for myself. (I love when he wins and I reap the benefits. Free money is free money. He also was awarded a gift. He spun and only won the generic prize. We were hoping for a new grill. He picked out a grooming kit for himself. The other choices were not so great. Oh well free is free. 
We also headed to the local outlet mall, where we picked up a few last minute Christmas items and we each got ourselves some new sneakers. Much needed!  Later we met with Mark's mother for dinner at Santangelo's. (THIS place has the best chicken parm.) We ate well, I had some cocktails and we celebrated Hanukkah in style. I gave Diane an album of our trip to Las Vegas several years back. I think she enjoyed it. She gave us all wonderful gifts (CASH) and she also gave me some National Park quarters to add to my collection. I am currently only missing 20 quarters to make my sets complete. 


The evening was enjoyed with a little tv time and relaxation. TTFN.

Saturday, December 12, 2020

Flashback Friday: Washington DC with the husband

 Washington DC Sept. 2005

 In the early years of my marriage my husband was often invited to attend dinners, conventions all around the united states, outdoor activities, and I had heard that one friend of his had been flown out in a private jet to go golfing. All for free. My own personal experience with these FREE promotional activities came often in the forms of luncheons in the office. The office was well aware of when a drug rep. was coming in for the lunch hour. All we had to do was show up, sign in and listen to a presentation about whatever drug was being pushed and FREE lunch. These meals were ALWAYS from someplace amazing. These types of information gatherings provided by big named drug companies happened often. My husband and I attended multiple dinners at exotic and expensive restaurants and also took a few work "vacations". One such "vacation" took us to Washington DC .The convention was paid for, room/food and entertainment also paid for, and you would get paid to attend. As a wife, I got to enjoy these benefits as well. It was a win win. Of course this has changed over the years when the public began to question and dispute the prices of prescription drugs. I totally get it. Hundreds of thousands of dollars must have been spent over the years on promoting certain drugs to Dr.'s through "bribes" . I am not sure, but I believe there are some laws in place to prevent such promoting. At the time however, all I thought about was the opportunity to have some fun!

We drove to DC (about 6 hours) and stayed at an amazing hotel; L'Enfant Plaza located central to everything DC.

Our first day, we enjoyed a view of the White House, took in some of the national mall and connected with my husband's college roommate; Ed, who resides in Virginia and is a practicing Sports Medicine Dr. We had a wild and crazy ride out of DC. (People drive crazy here) and enjoyed dinner while watching Syracuse University play on TV.


We had time to tour the area enjoying the reflecting pool over looking the Washington Monument. 

Well, hello Mr. President. At that time the president was George Bush. 
The memorials were incredible. We walked from one end of the reflecting pool to the other to take in the several memorials. 
The Korean War Veterans Memorial, Vietnam Veterans Memorial and WWII Memorial are all centrally located near Lincoln Memorial.
The Lincoln memorial is so much more impressive in real life. I couldn't believe how large he really is.
Below is me standing at the base. 

During the day, while my husband was attending the conference, I was off exploring. I had some of the best DC experiences on my own. ( I failed to take pictures, but most places I visited didn't allow pictures anyways.) 

One of the first places I visited was the Bureau of Engraving and Printing. The place where they make the MONEY! Admission was free and no timed ticket was required when I visited, I understand that during peek season these can go fast so get there early. I was fortunate that there was no real demand and it was early enough in the morning to get in right away. 

The tour lasts about 40 minutes and you are lead by a tour guide who will inform you of everything you could every want to know about making money. Not actually making money with a job, but actually making paper money.  Behind the scenes of the those crisp dollars is the design department. Where bank note designers create, define and specialize in what the dollar will look like. Engravers will then cut fine lines into steel discs to create a 3D effect. Siderography will complete the images and designed to prepare for the engraving plates.  Rolls of specifically designed white paper is prepared for rolling into the engraver. Additionally there are specific inks, dyes, watermarks and threads. 

I watched in amazement as sheets and sheets and sheets of $100's were rolled out and handled by employees of the Bureau. Let me tell you, you can never forget watching this before your eyes. Pretty impressive. 

Another visit I took was to the United States Holocaust Museum. Admission is free, but you must get a timed entry ticket. (photography is not allowed)This museum was incredibly enlightening for me in the history and impact of the Holocaust. Like much of my awareness of historical events, I was somewhat disillusioned by the details of this tragic event in history.  This museum provides 1st hand knowledge of what life would have been like as Jewish individual during the 1930-1940. Upon entry you are provided with an identification card which tells of the life of a person living during these times.  I was identified as Ida. Fortunately for Ida, her father was a diamond manufacture and his skills were needed during the war. This was fortunate for Ida and her family as they were spared the death camps and stayed together as a family. Ida eventually emigrated to the United States. 

Ida's story is a fortunate one, but some of the other stories are much more tragic. Over 6 million Jewish people were killed along with 5 million others (such as disabled, homosexuals, and gypsies) during the reign of Adolf Hitler, from 1933 to 1945. Its hard to accept the reality of the Holocaust. I asked myself how could an entire country submit to treatment of any human beings such as the holocaust? When Hitler came to power Germany was facing a depression and major losses from WWI. Hitler was accepted as he was a strong leader with intense charisma. People believed he would save the country. Once in power he aligned the Nazi political party and began imprisioning communists and socialists. His ideal view became synonymous with German pride, and many people bought into it.  Even children were taught in school to "Heil Hitler" .  Initially,  the Jewish were required to show identification, then they were no longer allowed to attend certain public spaces, eventually they were ripped from their homes and sent to ghettos and concentration camps. The horror these people must have faced during these times.  

Within the museum you are exposed to the horrors that these people experienced. The hall of pictures, which is a long corridor of pictures of Jewish individuals, called the Tower of faces adds to the reality that these individuals had lives just like our own. Photo from the internet.



 Incredibly sombering  is the 4,000 pairs of shoes. To think that these people were living their lives, going about their days wearing these shoes and told they were going to  place in the East to build a better life, only to be killed in the gas chambers. 

In addition to these profound exhibits, I was also taken by the Nazi medical experiments that were viewable on little tv screens. Medical staff would use non-consented individuals as medical test subjects for the purpose of understanding survival of the military. Experiments of how an individual would survive from a parachute drop at high altitudes, drink sewage water, and experience extreme hyperthermia to see what temperatures one could survive at were tested. Others were subjected to taking experimental medications with unknowing side effects. Genetics, often would use twin subjects to inject diseases, and many more were sterilized in an attempt to wipe out the undesirable. 

I left the museum with a sense of sadness, but grateful for the increased knowledge and understanding of such a profound tragedy.  I took this picture from the wall outside the museum, (see below) it reads of why it is important for us to be aware of such horrific history.

I also visited the national museum of American history, and the National Archives, where I got to view the real Constitution. I also went to Fords Theater. This was the place president Abraham Lincoln was assassinated. 

On April 14th 1865, local actor John Wilks Booth assassinated President Lincoln by shooting him in the back of the head and escaping by jumping off the balcony seats to the stage while the president was enjoying a performance of Our American Cousin. The president was immediately taken to across the street to the Petersen House where he died from his injuries the following morning. 

Mark and I had a wonderful dinner presented by the company that evening and on our final morning we headed back to NY. TTFN